Custom embdedd media player / skin

I own a site that plays videos. The user can copy the code for the video from my site and paste it into their website or blog. That code allows them to play the video, through my site, without requiring them to host the video themselves. Understand? Here is an example of my site at myspace: [login to view URL] That video originated from this code from my site: [Free music video codes by [login to view URL]][1] See Deliverable for more information on project ## Deliverables What I want developed is a way to customize the embedded media player that the users sees on pages where my videos are playing. Make sense? Essentially I want to give the users options to change the way the embedded vieo player looks. Right now it is just a grey and boring. Is there a way to do this? ## Platform linux